Sunday, April 25, 2010

Spring to Summer

Though it's a bit of an awkward shape and has some 'old house' issues, I love our living room. Last Sunday, I spent the morning dusting and swapping out some wintery stuff (like heavy drapes) for lighter, more summery accessories. My m-i-l gave us a big conch which works very well for this. I don't have a lot of tchotchkes because I was never much of a collector, and I don't have a lot of larger decorative items because generally speaking, I'm too cheap to buy them - instead I spend a lot of time rotating what I do have and trying to make them coordinate in different ways. It's like a fun decorating puzzle.

I added semi-sheer light cotton drapes for the season (Target). I think they lift the room and make it feel pretty and more seasonally appropriate:



Two summers ago we had some loose stones in our chimney reset, and we are lucky that the mason who originally created it 20 years ago lives a few houses up the road. He's retired and aging, but very skilled. For a ridiculously low hourly rate (as long as my husband agreed to do the heavier lifting and dealing with the scaffolding...which was fine by me - the dude is like 150 years old and the thought of him teetering near our rooftop was rather unsettling) he fixed the chimney and re-did our crumbling back steps to match. The same stone work surrounds our pellet stove inside - our mason friend told us it all came from the mountain behind our house. Even cooler.

Here's the chimney (before we re-did the deck). You can see the newer mortar is much brighter...all those stones had to be taken down, cleaned, and re-set.
Here's the back steps. The walkway (which is done now, but in progress here) is new too...there was old rotting decking there before, which we removed, and Tim added the pavers. He's so awesome. He really really is, and I adore him. Even though he doesn't clean up after his messy projects. He just figures things out and does them - from plumbing to carpentry to electrical stuff. If I were on my own with house issues such as we've had, I'd either a) moved into a condo, b) called my daddy and cried, or c) put a tarp down and called it a day. Permanently.


I'm proud to announce that I did some minimal weeding today (I hate yard work). I think maybe if I get really cute gardening gloves, possibly with matching gardening clogs, I might do it more often. We'll see. Anyway, in the scheme of all the overdue landscaping that needs tending to around this place, it's nothing, but it was satisfying. I also trimmed and tacked to perfect length the new drapes pictured above. Even more satisfying. Here's some cute floral pruning gauntlets. Yes. I think if I could ask, "Now where are my linen pruning gauntlets?" I might find myself doing yard work more often.


I let Sam play outside for about half an hour with no sunblock so he could make some vitamin D for the week - they really overdo the sunblock at preschool even though I wrote "only as needed" in his file...perhaps I should have been more specific: Allow him to be outside without sunblock for the first 5-10 minutes, then apply, and only May-September months. I suppose with multiple pre-schoolers to track, my request might be kinda picky. Then again, considering the tuition, they should be feeding him caviar...

He's finally more interested in non-scribble coloring and writing letters now too - all in all, he's slowly getting to the 'capable of entertaining self for extended periods of time' stage, which I've been waiting for, it seems, my whole life. One of these weekends I'm gonna count how many times I hear "Mommy". Just for kicks.

Hopefully his more consistent independence will allow us to actually do a little more outside this summer (ok, that was a lame excuse...whatever). Last year's garden was an epic fail, but I have high hopes for this summer. Not that I fret - if something doesn't do well, I don't try to slueth it out (is that even a legit term? Again - whatever. You know what I mean). No, I can't deal with trying to mitigate pests and diseases...I'm just not interested. My mantra is that if a plant can't survive under my basic care (water and sun), it just wasn't meant to be. I will really relish my 2 tomato crop...I'll let you know the day they are picked.

Monday, April 12, 2010

Rushed summary with no humor or sarcasm

Lately I feel like time runs out on me every day. What worries me most is that I'm not even indulging in my usual procrastination, making it kind of ridiculous to blame myself. Much of it has to do with my job, which, at times, is unbearably busy and I feel guilty that I am not doing work on weekends. Yuck.

I really needed a quick getaway. This weekend Tim and I used up the remaining 6 of our Comic Strip Live tickets (our first trip is another story). We had invited both my brothers and their girlfriends, but in the end, my youngest brother wasn't able to go, so I offered the tickets last minute to 2 old friends who are in the NYC area. We all knew one another in college, and I hadn't seen one in 5 years, the other in 10 years, and the two of them hadn't seen one another in nearly 10 years as well...so it worked out to be a nice little impromptu reunion.

We had a great meal at a french bistro on the Upper East Side before the show. The show itself was very funny - we saw Judah Friedlander (of 30 Rock) as well as Chuck Nice and Sherrod Small (you might remember then from Best Week Ever if you were into that). After, we were all pretty beat and went our separate ways. We are so old and weak. Tim and I stayed midtown and slept in.

The next day, we sort of killed some time having a late (very late) breakfast, and met Alex and his girlfriend Melissa again at the Museum of Modern Art. We had tickets to the Tim Burton exhibit (which ends this month). That was really quite good, and I'm glad I caught it.

We headed back to Grand Central in the late afternoon and had dinner with my parents (Sam was with them over that past 24 hour period, in case you were wondering). We were going to spend Sunday night at my grandparents, but, aching for our own bed made us decide to just drive home. We got in about midnight last night.

We also have a new kitten, who thanks to a couple of visits from my friend Allison, did not die of loneliness or hunger in our absence.

So clearly, I owe you a couple of better organized posts here, but I just wanted you to know what was up in the meantime.

Peace out, ass clowns.